First, the introduction has been very regrettable thing is that the days of pregnancy is not a diary. When I saw the fence line After listening to my husband thought very surprised: br> In four years in April OO, OOO to recall occurred in the second year in mm b OO things, it seems a bit late. Many stories will become blurred, some pain has long been forgotten, some will be happy rendering, exists in memory, is the many beautiful stories and some of helpless self-deprecating.
should be how to write his memoirs, written in chronological order, or sub-event classification, I have been wavering because of their advantages and disadvantages. Press Write in chronological order, would be more consistent with the rules of development; points event description, the energy before and after contact, in context. the last time I decided to order the events center.
there is a problem, that is, when to begin writing ? discussions with colleagues in just 3 minutes, the time to start writing the day of pregnancy, adjusted to the preparation for pregnancy, and then adjust to marriage, and finally forward the time I was a teenager over to give birth to a boy on the future, the idea was born Write the date. This just 3 minutes I set up the framework of the memoir: the idea was born in preparation for pregnancy, early pregnancy, trimester, late pregnancy. The story of the delivery room and Zhezhe story of growing bit by bit I have more wordy record in the to finish this we can see the story: of success, but more than this world are lazy, so often a rare thing successful. I later thought of the many acts have an impact, so I think it is necessary to look wordy here.
I met a young girl's growing pains. menarche other children, often do not come half a year; I borrowed a year in October from scratch Da Yima to endless second year in March, my mother showed me countless doctors, finally optimistic about it. this painful experience made me realize how much people do not green easy, if you were reincarnated, I hope I will be a Blue Man.
too far, but the next life. I then had some basic physiological knowledge, to understand green men would give birth to a baby finally. So I hope I will be living in a male baby, the one he does not have to bear to bear and I'm going to bear the hardship to let me know how boys grow up different from girls.
the middle of a small episode, the students legend : boys have puberty, and girls and to the same things every month. Today's children will know that this is a lie, but I am a young girl to receive the traditional, or quite puzzled for a while . so I'm just ten years old when, in the wrong information obtained under the Slow growing, learning more knowledge of physiology, I gradually learned that the legend is a lie, I will once again strengthened the determination to give birth to a son. Although I do not know how his son was born, but I always felt that my future children must be a boy.
However, in my junior at the time, and roommate and I chat in the process, I found my knowledge of the original physical health is so poor, because until then I suddenly clear: the path and Da Yima hush the path is not the same way! my roommates make fun of the idea I want a son: This can not blow my enthusiasm, I still blindly believe that they can give birth to sons.
then I married, I feel there is a good son, that is, two men love me; and daughter, then her husband to can justifiably flirting with another woman, and this is I can not stand. It seems I was more selfish, more love of their own, this is my shortcoming in this together to make some self-criticism.
a few years later, I find that the daughter is a good choice. recent national leaders are beginning to pay attention in 2020 tens of millions of men and bachelor's problem, that is to contain the current imbalance between men and women born in the momentum, showing that the situation has quite severe, which means my son will marry a wife of the costs will be doubled up; and secondly, the daughter is the mother of the cotton jacket, and finally to understand filial piety is always comparing her own parents. However, when I realized that this situation time, almost 3 years old son already had.
Third, preparation for pregnancy
1, sunny day after the wedding of a thunderbolt
I do not want a baby right away, because I was a child himself. I think to the children a little bit nervous, do not know how to talk to them, how to play with them?
Later, a doctor's words changed the situation.
OOO This is the second in the spring, a sunny day. because of inflammation, I see a doctor. testing single out, I see the doctor. It was a male doctor, when there are numerous small room around a woman at his side, they chirp Za Za noisy noisy. The doctor glanced at my lab test, the rise exclaimed: His sentence is not talking to me? but was ringing in my brain buzzing, like a mine exploded in the head in general, I feel the soft legs. I stumbled out of the hospital, go ah walked into the Xinhua Bookstore. where the research my condition. Through the study, I understand, this inflammation ah, if more serious, really have the possibility of infertility; if another more serious is the cancer! me to scared. I may fly to heaven, and even before birth to the son does not come out! So a person in the office crying inside edge to edge, more and more convinced that the poor themselves. This book is not very detailed description, I then went to the Provincial Library looking for information. that the information detailed ah, illustrated, and almost did not put myself to the sick S.
night, I cry cry flows do a lot to describe her husband. I think he was going to lose at least I'm such a good his wife to show a little bit of sadness, showing a trace of sadness, I think at least he at least look for my eye socket in the red. began to be heard hesitated husband hesitated, but finally he ask all the circumstances actually haha laughing, he said: is the rain, and good men are rational.
but even so, I intend to hurry to have children, because such a baby to be a thorough treatment of inflammation (this is a result of learning), and further develop if the inflammation may really can not have a baby.
husband certainly agree with my idea. He said: hope to have a baby.
2, the long gestation Road
since that seek to buy a gynecological book, went to library and information, I have passion for learning gynecology out of control. I am not saying a Well, I hope birth to a son, began to learn how to give birth to a healthy baby, how to give birth to a baby boy.
how to give birth to a healthy baby, much of the information on both large chunks, and similar descriptions , is that both sides should pay attention to nutrition, physical exercise to strengthen and so on. As to how birth to a boy baby, but also have many detailed presentation, including the same room time, diet control, and even the skills to conceive.
like a boy, on the same room time there is a strict requirement, is to ask the abstinence until ovulation a few days ago to the same room. I splashed splashed open book, turned a half-book, know that under the basal body temperature method, ovulation is the lowest temperature that day. So I went to Buyer grid paper stationery shop, go to the pharmacy to buy a thermometer. wake up every morning, I can not speak softly and gently picked up on a pillow stuffed into the mouth side of the thermometer. and then wait, then the temperature records to the grid paper, then draw on the day, lines to link these points. to the totally do not mind.
found no further decline after rising curve, I then go to the doctor and asked if it was pregnant. doctors are very angry that I half know anything. ; I sobering. Sure, the third day of my period to come.
the first month is just to try it Well, I do not care.
month, in the first 29 days of the time, My Da Yima or not, I am happy. because of my Da Yima is generally one week in advance. I secretly, enraptured to tell my colleagues leaves. Ye said Congratulations friends. but the first 30 days Da Yima night came. disappointed.
the first three months, in the first 30 days, my Da Yima or not, I am happy. I secretly, enraptured to tell my colleagues leaves. Ye Or Congratulations friends. but the first 31 days of night Da Yima to come. very disappointed.
more months of a month, I thought I had, but her husband said he drank while back a bottle of beer, and makes us feel very bad. husband in my long-term and disappointed.
the first four months of this experience was repeated. Tell me, though it seems so few months, but I really think at the time a long time. has always been to be ahead of LJ, so why time, I want to figure out. Of course I said no and leaves, as a kid I heard of always so tired of patiently listening to my pieces.
This is a summer evening, I rode my bicycle home, she saw a gigantic pregnant belly bulging, leisurely walking, sunset wrapped her entire child up. I suddenly felt that she was the Virgin Mary as the general and holy beauty. the doctor said is true? When I came to LJ stomach will be very painful, pain can not settle their own; but this time, my heart more pain, pain that Huozhe are predictable and dull. husband bear the pain me so, he help me on the shoulder, he said, : half of this, this and then see. I watched, I found that so long since I recognized the The four dozen, minus one day to twenty percent or so, before and after the second day around ten percent; In addition, the eggs several times a month the possibility of scheduling. and so on and so on. I turned suddenly dizzy. Medicine Knowledge is so limitless, but I learned a fur to Hunchong understand. My GOD!
This story tells us that reading to read, do not watch half of this to applied practice. Later, I had seen a practicing holy canon This person is this shortcoming, like going to extremes, from one extreme to another extreme brush. For her and her husband will do their homework things casual, happy on the line.
four early pregnancy
1, successful pregnancy The favorable factors
then I realized, to a successful pregnancy, the mood of relaxation is very important. Therefore, in the first 6 months, when I see my mistake, do not strictly follow procedures, but not body temperature, drawing curve, I found myself really pregnant! (Later, I shot this picture with a camera full of graph paper graph, the first 6 months of the curve is up I can be prepared several data, so historical not been tampered with is difficult.)
few years later, I see people introduced in the cradle of experience online, said that be pregnant. According to 6 months, in the first few months of witnessing the suffering of my experiences, recognized by him instead of the need for me to think, he calculated a bit less in the heart of ovulation, and then, and I did a 2 - 3 homework. when he did not and I was afraid that I was nervous. It seems her husband and mother as smart as the cradle of the Internet!
However, I do not rule out the possibility of his hindsight!
I think I can smooth pregnancy, but also thanks to my mother .8 at the end of early September, when I came to LJ, my mother came to Hangzhou. Mom said let us change beds Shuishui, and may even pregnant. on Here, my husband and I did not adopt that are not used to. and then my mother in our bed, when we both went to work for us thanks to the worship of public bed woman bed. mother said a kid whenever we get sick, she would ask bed Public bed po. human life is a lot of time in bed, which is most of the time sleeping in his own bed. so bless bed seems po-bed public is very important. mother worship for us back home after the gods. gods to meet her mother's wishes, I successfully became pregnant.
2000 year in September, the month is really a magic, all the conditions are good there in that month. First, I used every day will face the computer, since mid-August I'm going to lead to pregnancy, arrangement colleagues Yu came, I do not have to touch the radiation source. And then all of Yu and competent work related to exposure to radiation took over all the smooth, which makes I am 9 months pregnant I am pregnant that month, the confidence to go full-time training, completely away from the radiation source! Second, this intermediate leaders had asked me to go back every day at noon rehearsal dance, theatrical performances to participate in the bureau after due to training stress, unable to return unit to give up at noon, Xingshen!! its three home every day this month to see the Sydney Olympics, the Chinese team have done quite well; training continued during the examination, each examination results are good, two things I feeling very happy!!
get together a variety of favorable factors, led to my pregnancy!
2, carefully verify the fact of pregnancy, when I got married in
, my leader gave me a warm Pregnancy Diary months Eastern Airlines sanatorium routine medical examination. I live in a single room, at her husband with me. according to my personal LJ cycle, the last time I was 28 August to LJ, then this will come 26. at 8: 00, vacation leave or not to. I said: , I still did not come to LJ, I hugged her and her husband (History may be curved).
9 月 28 at night, go home and turn : go see a doctor.
9 29, the morning to eat a lot of things, drank the milk after the bean soup and drank down one o'clock. I happily came to the Provincial Tongde hospital. urine test results is not pregnant . I think it is not something the morning of Tang Tang halogen halogen drank too much, diluted urine. should be like.
. I took the temperature measured from the mother to understand what I'm doing now. The whole holiday did not come to LJ, my mother said it should be pregnant, so my dad bought a lot of food.
7 days, I took high-speed back to Hangzhou. LG in the East Bus Station to meet me. I still remember that it was a sunny day, we sat on the bus, the car was empty. LG said that his sister is also pregnant, has been 4 months (how now just tell me?). We say that our baby is the youngest, and then outside, then inside that the baby will likely have its own elders, brothers and sisters of all favor. Of course, our little baby is certain to be our all the love both.
husband think I like to eat crabs, so bought a few crabs come. I actually played on the resentment of the big crab! the door in our neighborhood there are many hotels, write a great big ; words, I am busy turned away, afraid to look at one.
afternoon, LG with me to the doctor. The first pregnancy is confirmed or not, the second is to see how the overall state of my teeth. To prepare for pregnancy I have ahead of bad teeth in the dental hospital was repaired. test results came out, pregnant. The doctor looked at the corner of the eye a single laboratory, said: said: said: angelic smile, she gently answered my question.
I was always honest to the people that I, that I am the cause of both red and expert successor party, even though I prefer the freedom of bones and romance. Then I became pregnant in the mid thing, completely changed most of my life, world outlook and values. Since then, I release the true self.
3, unique pregnancy reaction < br> I am very happy I was finally pregnant. According to projections, the expected date is June 2, 2001. I'm in the day was designated as , period: 2.5 days (short, never had such a short); Waist: one foot eight inches and a half, Weight: 94 pounds the morning, the evening of 96 kg. for the baby, I wrote: I hope my baby is healthy, smart, cute beautiful (handsome).
this book with a lot of information on diet, here are my focus on symbols. I remember me and my colleagues Yu also a wide range of nutritional issues to discuss, and to maximize the preservation of food nutrition cooking methods on the preliminary discussion, use the term was decisive instructive. Not only that, her influence on my whole life is profound. she was in my bad days, and I talk poetry, history, politics, taught me to appreciate ballet and eventually become a ballet fan, so I lost heart been enriched.
when I was immersed in a surprise pregnancy when, one after another of various pregnancy reaction to Seoul.
out of the first reaction is that LG to eat I bought the crab you, but then I like to eat sour, crab discomfort can be run in the cool touch of acidity to get the relief that night, LG Zhenjiang vinegar with cucumber salad caught my appetite, I eat a lot. like to eat sour things, so tomatoes become a the time, soon I became sensitive to all the food very sour, very offensive. So far I still remember my poor LG took a vinegar, hid in the kitchen, shut the door, embarrassed to eat alone in the case of any dip It was supposed to be my favorite things, so LG will come to buy. And I do not like spicy mm has been even a little will make me stand mm was made me THINK. In fact, things spicy bad, but LG still meet my thoughts all, let me taste a little bit mm in fact I try much, I'm afraid of spicy food. smell, I also hate the smoke smell, I justifiably do not cook the. woman variability during pregnancy is called ; inspection far away, boys also face blurred, I felt my own tired, I go over to sit down. Then Pan said boys I was very dramatic fall, and started they thought I just wanted to do a dance movement Later when they come to understand that perhaps a little nervous. I heard many voices saying: the wind, I sober him. I saw the benefactor's face, Yu co-workers, of course, not to mention my female colleagues in front of Yu, but Yu male colleagues. My hands and feet numb, my colleagues fed sugar water, Fu to the duty room and then I lie down, I slowly recovered. After this thing, the whole company knows that I'm pregnant. and had I do not want people to know, do not know for what kind of consideration, Back then my idea is hard to fathom now.
Later, I became particularly fond of sleep .10 14, Saturday, it is my turn on duty, around noon, and dinner time yet to come, The magazine can be seen almost see, Indian summer weather as people bully drowsiness. so, I unwittingly fell asleep. a day off, are going to bed early evening to life. When I was have children, to understand how sleep can be a happy thing ah.
I feel most deeply, there is a unique, never-ending morning sickness. I put it into several stages:
The first stage, I have a feeling the stomach is called nausea .10 17, my record reads: time to quickly eat, stomach comfortable. .21 stomach comfortable eating at a Saturday, the day the record is written: intake with lots of VA, VE both vitamins in the food, so I listed in the side of the two vitamin-rich food. see my appetite is good.
the second stage, into the formal, long the morning sickness stage. in 21 I still appetites, October 22 evening supper to feel uncomfortable at the .23, I took the bus home from work, home to I wrote that ; in the words a good thing actually going to take a seat to see a young man to be taken away. also blame my stomach is too small, no one knows Well give me special attention. probably because I was tired, sick day, not the stomach, and his face is not Well, after dinner, ; vomiting pregnancy diary, vomiting diary thing, but too boring description, words can enrich it. who need something, when seven dirty eight elements can know how to Continued .11 at the end of early December, morning sickness began to become powerful .12 2 March, I wrote: would like to then spit out. and spit every time at night, unlike stated in the book and video l pregnant women, morning sickness r, LG said that our baby Jesus really different! , 8 .9 is spit on, I work overtime in the unit at noon appetite is good, food is delicious, eat a lot of dishes, but unfortunately, spit light! I suspect that is not put MSG in food, so the rise my allergies, I wrote on this day, Diary written in the diary so it vomiting. In my memory, until the end of December until the end of the real history of vomiting.
in these days, I am most afraid to see that TV ad on the stomach, frog's stomach has been drum ah drums, the boom makes my stomach bursts of acidic water, and quickly change the channel.
Last sincerely hope that these words will not make you feel upset stomach.
4, the pregnant special care
has long been my personal edge of a good person, who is also a lucky encounter mm are very concerned about people who take care of me. since I was pregnant, I got a lot of my colleagues in the care and attention.
colleagues in our office the best things often brought home to me mend. In the second year in April, Yu's grandmother brought her from the country of the authentic eggs, so she cooked a day Well, get me one to. Even our secretary of adults, there are times steamed black date early in the morning to let me eat. colleagues in other departments with a black fungus from the Northeast, will recall that I took a lot to come. What impressed me most is our unit was sent to nearly 20 bundles of sugarcane and colleagues know that this is my best antiemetic prescription, so I eat a little special care. our office driver Miss throat throat eat eat two and bound back to where we are the do not like to sleep, so there are gang take a walk with me, and buy sugar cane, of which there are Yi Yi Ma, a little girl, Tang, Wu, etc., they often walk with me in the warm sun, listening to my nagging me baby and how many centimeters long, and then what organs to grow out. On one occasion, Yu is also used to taking naps with me to go a long long way just to be with me to buy a cane.
In my most painful days of vomiting, 6 November, my junior high school friend Lee gave me a telephone call, she said she had 7 months, and in January will birth; she introduced me to her response to the situation of pregnancy, that this situation will end at least 3 months. My colleague Chen, Xu, leaves, etc., and Li agreed to say, I hope I can quite make it out, because Hong Times? when Ruanda mother said: statement to the press in her body. I said, history had not been bending is difficult.
, of course, the greatest care of me, nature is my LG. I 11 January 12 Personal record says the weekend did not get a good rest. to farms to buy food, then walk back home. He went home after dark when the general, I am alone in bed reduction, LG put down food, the first now admits that, although most of the time I was really uncomfortable, but sometimes I also deliberately put on a very poor way to get love and affection of his heart. LG tried a variety of nutritious way to get me to eat something, he The cooking has been a leap second (the first time we love, cc). but my stomach to his face sometimes not, sometimes I eat all the spit, but left his mouth a delicious feeling. For a while I want to eat catfish, but for a long period of time to buy farms in less than depriving the more I want to eat out. LG home that day, when I look in the eyes of the face, and said : a! Come the end of the day want to become pregnant, see a small baby, LG said that the stage of pregnancy is a beautiful, once in a lifetime, so to gradually appreciate. I said I like boys, LG said that he liked, but still ...
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