1, a female, aged 35, civil servants, looks good, kind-hearted, naive, hesitated. Has registered more than half of men the same age, the unit in a good income, live with their parents. A female due to a left women age, their registration of marriage, intended to give a feast to get married this September. and then after six months to live, a man is not considerate temper, for example, even if his wife after quarrel with fever, not seriously. angry will send text messages to his wife: Do you pack your luggage get out of it. wife the night shift back to good rest, you can play on the computer next to man, told him to finish the work do not affect the rest, a man unmoved. a woman wanted a divorce, can fast thirty-six, afraid of breaking up and then find, affect fertility age, but also afraid of hard to explain in front of relatives and friends. Now the man lived in the house of parents, parents of the wife is OK, not in the side of the instigation. divorce? or separated from the make do with too?
call you get out of the motionless man, you can stand? you can improvise to when? more later if he does not respect you, you how in his home base?
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2, I am going to a senior, never had a boyfriend. University sophomore and a senior high school students out on the floor affair, he had no girlfriend, very intelligent, and sometimes arrogant comparison, the family in very good condition. I speak to him has been very disgusting, and I like how he felt normal. sophomore summer I the Internet to tell him, he did not give me feedback, I will not mention this, but still remains with him is ambiguous. because I think it was really fun. summer we did not meet. junior year, I dedicated to him Send birthday gifts, but he only made my birthday text messages, which made me particularly disappointed. against him about gone. then I do not want to care for him, and gradually have less contact with each other.
junior , he began to frantically preparing to go abroad to learn English, move off campus. We began to frequent contact, I always learn from him in the evening after the end of his long-distance calls, we are to talk to. I spoke to him particularly nauseating, and he have more discretion. Recently he was finally able to send text messages said to me quite like my kind of thing, but he never took the initiative to call me. He just said, I said to him very important. Shun-shun, You say that we may develop into couple Why?
you are too active, so that he has the burden of pressure. In fact, because you are too enthusiastic, and so he do not care. people are very cheap, and the more we get, the more we want, if at hand, who rare it?
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3, I 28, my mother did not like my boyfriend, he too stingy, eye and more. Some time ago we broke up recently and the good. my mom though whether I can still see he is not pleasing to the eye. In order to please her favor, both of us decided to ask me Jiujia children and her husband (sister and her husband) to eat, because my mom especially like the two of them was my brother will discuss my mother to please. morning brother and my mom on the phone, My mother said: do not eat, my mother fire, and I kicked up a meal. that I helped an outsider, and her efforts in vain what.
fact, very early, and my mom do not quite communicate. My mother told me is also very satisfaction, did not approach these things from childhood habit. but I still greatly respect my parents, still hope they will happy. But I tried to no good. Shun Shun, how can I do it?
distance tests a horse / time will tell, you want your family think highly of her boyfriend, a man must work all his people do not hate and fear ah. Slowly Come on, do not worry.
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4, a female 36, with a male acquaintance in love because of the network. are getting married, so do not want to destroy each other's lives. after an appropriate opportunity to look at a female a male, so the two together. a male abilities, a female lust He loved to continue contact. but subsequently found enthusiasm for a male is not like before, and asked that busy or anxious. a female inner pain, self-blame themselves easily delivered, had thought about suicide, has burst into question on the phone, a male is prevarication.
approaching holiday a few months later, a man tried to contact, a woman had never agreed to. a man explained that the difficulties encountered in the work, combined with interpersonal (working to enhance a male at that time, friends, enemies do to let him bruised and battered ) and so affect the mood. after a few months, a male and a late night call, saying that they want a woman that she can die, and said if they had the same province, then marry her, and so on. a female heart waves, he hates cold themselves, and wonder whether he really still love myself? such men is also necessary to contact you?
He recently started hormone secreted? Do not trust him to you the truth, he is just Huiguo Shen, and abandoned or other Nvwang , and for that you still value the.
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5, I and his first love, 96 years married 10-year-old daughter, marriage has always been very plain and very happy. He is also part-time civil servants, I have 3 times higher income. I am an ordinary worker, body looks good. his monthly wages will be the first time into the house, never lost his temper, the disadvantage is playing, do little bit of housework. to do the housework I did not complain, Na is a woman who told we may be wrong I found him last summer, and then find out he was online dating, I can not stand this very conservative, and then started yelling at him and filed for divorce. I was going crazy, for children I'm not out of the wall, although he repeatedly pledged not to chat and do this, but my heart still can not trust him the same as before.
I went to check his network, then the temptation really opened my eyes , suddenly realize the specific meaning of the word lover. Do not laugh at me ah, the question now appears the matter, a university teacher in the online experience, I can not resist his charm, and he now wants to see me, and that man's demand. fast wake up cursing me, I still love my husband.
you are ordinary workers, estimated degree is not high? So you think that university teachers are very knowledgeable very elegant? Oh, one has to break your dreams along the: knowledge, the more reactionary, mao says; knowledge of more and more poor, a smooth talking.
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6, female, 31, married 4 years, 3 years old son, has a flat light of the home. due to business relationships, understanding and a man, more normal business of talk time, talk to him very happy (I think he is quite humorous. react quickly, and he is also more pleased to receive my call. a long time, no business contacts will make a telephone chat. Recently he always talk about some of the more ambiguous words, such as, marry your wife happy so good, or, you know early enough. to hear the case, as I always like a scatterbrain smirk, but say the truth, sometimes inexplicable to him, and he received a phone is also very happy. In fact, we go as much as a good friend? Shun sister, how would you say a little better.
Men Chulai Hun, are good for a woman not his flatterers. is only one reason: there is no wild flowers home flowers; men ambiguous motives of other women, and only one: a chance to sleep on the white white sleep, no chance to sleep when the boredom of white .
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7, I am 33 years old, unmarried, what are the appearance on the middle. boyfriend to do a design, a more introverted personality and feelings, people are good. He talked about 6 years before the girlfriend looking for one and a half after breaking his back (before they bought a house together, then broke up the room points to sell the money, she proposed breaking up), the boyfriend thought they had feelings of deep feelings of our 8 months , so he chose the former girlfriend, but he is guilty for me. I know that after the resignation of his choice to leave, very sad. sad there are two, one, I love him; Second, sad for myself, I This age may never find the person like him.
6 月 2 day I talk to him after the Department no longer talk, he occasionally shares in the QQ on the point of things to me (we did not break up when he I have been teaching for stocks), stock is limited to occasional chats on the evening of 1 .7 to call me, ask me how I was, so I do not want the old stay at home, many went looking friends. I just told He talked stocks. these two days sick in the hospital one night when the hanging bit and would like to call him, hold back, I did not. Last night really want, so call him, to see him again. He said to us two good, or not see the good. January, if I want to see him after he saw me.
this period of time to think about, and I'm not willing to, want to call his ex-girlfriend, of course, not acrimony, just ask her to make him happy, to love him, of course, to let her know that I exist! this phone or else fight? a month if I still want to see him, you do not see? this problem may be that along sister What kind of man, but also two people competing! but I do not fit now, so please Shun sister over to help!
he does not love you, so go to Ben old love. you go now, even his girlfriend , no help. because what if two people are likely to say through. Do not do useful work, to their point of dignity, he's looking down on you secondary, do not let his wife look down on you.
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8, husband and I married 12 years, is the high school, his people are very playful, loving girlfriend, before the night out drinking with friends to play regularly, know a lot of girlfriends, often sent messages to their phone calls, during which also has produced tracks, but small children, did not divorce. he came home to us Nianglia good, that one said this, he was anxious. to the Internet from his post to continue to call friends, send messages every day, but also seen two, we upset this thing, he said that he is such a character, not change, if I could go to before, there is no way he can not accept. I began to check his cell phone, I want to know what he was in the end is kind of people, men really do both sides of character. He is very angry this thing.
Last year, I found him not far from friends and a good on, because I always check him, and that woman to buy him had a cell phone, a separate contact, he sometimes went out with her. was I found, I filed for divorce, he said no contact with her, and also to me. these days soon, I found that they also contact our relationship has deteriorated. He said that can not be that easy to forget her, he fell in love with her. I call that woman, but also to her husband to call, so instead make them better. talked several times without result, we almost did not say much now, and today I found that he has to go to her, wanted to follow him, they do not think the meaning, let him go, but I felt very sad, like life, every day as in hell.
I do not work at home,UGG boots clearance, and yet to find a new job, I want a divorce do not want to hurt the child, do not want to destroy this house, can not leave, I and very painful. I do not mention divorce, so he , if I leave he can agree to leave, I really do not know how to do. This is really terrible day!
find someone to work towards self-reliance, economic independence, and later began to consider the relationship with him. Now you food and clothing are tender mercies, divorce will be very sad. be endured, and his settling in again afterwards.
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9, I'm 24, graduated last year, work is not one year, his family looks better in the far from home and a small town work the poorer .5 months and became a colleague our unit lover, his 13 years than I have wife and children. He was very nice to me, give me a call made every day a lot of text messages, My life is very pet, work in the economy also helped me (he is our unit leaders). I do not want to be a third party, but he treated me well, I feel attached to, he slowly, because his family is relatively far away from the unit, he only home weekends, he usually accompany me, and one day but not very like each other. I've talked several times in love, the results are divided, but I have not met me such a good man, he is also relatively strong in terms of, I could not bear him.
said he sometimes wished to marry me, but I know I and insignificant compared to his family, and I do not want to continue like this, sometimes looking for a BF Hurry and his end, this small place is not men in general graduated back, someone introduced me to some high school or secondary school, and himself will not want. began he agreed with me looking for a boyfriend, but a see me and send a text message before the boys are jealous of him, if not he has a wife and kids, I wanted to marry him. Soon my sister how to do you say, this has to do Valentine's is not the answer, and I could not bear his broken and I am currently looking for a boyfriend is also more difficult, very contradictory, I'm afraid this delay really is harder to resolve.
you this Valentine's leaders have more than secondary degree? Why is a child old wife man, you can fancy? and no children but was not his wife's young man you pick and choose? you do have to consider your values. so there must be secular worldly experience, such as a well-known three discredited to having failed to make.
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10, I 35, children 10 years old, her husband university students, 02 years ago has been separated the two, I work with children at home, outside his work, after people .03 Partnership since the plant opened, I quit my job, came to his office, the foreign office. before the relationship has been very good in 2006 found that he has changed, no longer the toe of my husband before, often regardless of right or wrong have to argue with me, and go home as late at night, never go home before 12 o'clock (he did die industry and factory life are on the increase), people began to regard me as a vacuum, is home to sleep, except May , XI, annual leave to rest, never rest on Sunday, almost did not eat at home (except breakfast). half of last year, did not return the number of nights per month in more than ten times, said the factory is busy. sometimes middle of the night back, no time for questioning two or asleep. sex life almost to nothing, just a few times a year.
me angry with them, their sub-bed to sleep, he also seen as no. the occasional phone call, by my back to the cold , in January after the long-lost contact almost. Mid-Autumn Festival on October 6 last year, relations remain tense, 10.1 had participated in his factory organization, the National Day travel to Wuxi, his morning about the evening to have dinner at six people and no telephone, gas s, go relax, followed by telephone about his home for dinner, I replied that I have to go out, the meals have been good. Half an hour later then call me to go home children, thought he had to go home, back home he did not come back, heart furious, fast home phone to announce something, do not call back empty, take after 12. Yi Zuo so its back, come back for several days after the outbreak of anger, kicked, talked about the divorce, until midnight, he took my hand and say take me to the floor. the way a woman hit a telephone call out, come to understand. three in the car, my husband asked me: Can a good mother to him? I asked to not, how about? he said that looking for a woman to take care of her. In all fairness, I do not like his mother, but never be too thin, with only very little communication.
His family is poor, study and get married when we were not spent a penny his mother, his old home Dad disease and death for us to pay off debts funeral. and the wedding day, his mother when the surface of its many friends and family referred to us its debt, this is I have been in the mind. home to explain the two had sex with Jiuba Nv , began one-night stand, after the students attracted to their understanding the situation. I told him to cut off contact, he would not talk about can be friends. Jiuba Nv leave the country after the end. if he did not believe him. until this year, Last year a similar situation can only be no other woman, and asked him whether this was too selfish. A company in the rising period, you need three years to life than this.
I want to leave him, but considering the economy and the children and the future, not And finally, this life suffocating, nor any way. Soon, I want to do this for three years, too long, and of his feelings slowly submerged by this indifference, for three years can not predict the future. sometimes asked him, he speaks most important cause, and the rest are better, not the can. and I do not think the cause could, no he can not. Soon, I was not very useless to rely on men's certainly survive, there is no own happiness? heart feeling and a little life, respectively, in addition to relying on the economy there is little emotional attachment to another point, when it also disappeared, but also to maintain what means? we have no future?
is true for the cause of it, or are there other problems? is a family to attend to, or completely on home care? This two questions you have Mo Pai clear, we go decision is to continue to be patient, or give up the boring boring marriage. < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
11, introduced his students to colleagues I know, A than me seven or eight years old, stable, have a house, divorced no children, and I get along with March, but it is very cold to me, two lives in the no more than 500 meters (I live with their parents after the divorce), and sometimes two or three days without a call. He said he does not like to play, go out have none, his classmates say he is kind of personality, very quiet. we find that Now, the hand did not pull over, heard people say that during the divorce because he is gay, others say he is mean, lonely, love care about. (to eat has always been at the flea market, tricycles have to bargain, to get along, I endure for a long time) I have said several times to break up, he gave a matchmaker called, so the matchmaker from the middle to reconcile. lukewarm or after. He also proposed to be married, (feels like he is in business meetings, ask me like to dowry), then I say it everywhere, we do not know each other.
I felt I did not point his passion, he always avoided me alone, to go out to public places. One time , went to his house, he did not let me in, put down what came out, I'm afraid he is gay, he lived a high school where the boy lived more than a year, he said his friend's children. There Once, he said the boy lived in his unwilling, to renters, the class teacher about the boy he was looking for. I said: The thought that he was wrong about you. He said that a child is love, so to rental housing, but also boast that children honest, sensible, very quiet. Sometimes, I really want to go look at the boy, but afraid not very good. If he is really an honest person sub, also quite good for my life. He once said that he had two poor students funding, tuition fees of 800 yuan per year. I appreciate this is his snack Good.
B, job stability, divorced without children, no house, spend money (like me, no deposits). outgoing personality, (I introverted, ineloquent, a little weak) have known in January, and during which he also talked about marriage, that to rent an apartment. He got the idea I am more, but smoking and drinking, sometimes I was afraid they do not, and personality. He made cook, like to eat, like to go out to play, I think as soon as possible select one of two, I'm afraid to hurt other people.
choose B, right, at least he was a man.
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12,4 online experience on my high school classmates. he is abroad, when he learn well, so I told him the impression is not bad, but not deep. ten years not seen, and he wanted to see my photo, I have sent a photo to him, did not think he will know that about me. I began to believe as he said, he impressed me. chat, he sometimes grumble, due to frequent travel, the daughter cried and said to his phone, his heart is breaking. once he did not mind, because I am a Chinese pregnant women had an accident there, he sad. It makes me feel that he is very responsible and loving. Gradually, he occasionally joking, said, envious of my husband have such a wife.
time he asked me what he bring me back what I said no, but the heart of his ideas a bit surprised and moved. That talk very late, he was very cordial and tolerant, always say I SEE. that night I have some insomnia, like tears. husband of Ye Hao my good looks, but no such sense of empathy. That night he left a few footprints on my blog, apparently it hard mood.
chats almost every day, every day in the blog see his tracks. Once he called me a few times, because I did not see in, come back and asked what he was busy, he said, had been waiting for me. He said come back as early as possible, so asked me to dinner. because he was meeting soon came back, but came back a few days ago he talked less. to the next day he gave me the phone and called a few students organized a class reunion. He took his daughter, love for me. a meeting place away from I am very close, but they are far away. scattered just got home his message is: Given how old the students are not happy today, ah, I brought you a bottle of perfume, and today is not convenient to you, so there is chance. happy to okay.
I tried to comfort him very happy. but do not know how things perfume rejected. I thought maybe he was talking about it now, it does not like him man ah. He made no Internet access at home. I am a rational person reserved, no such thought had derailed experiences. While talking with his lingering in my mind, but quickly adjusted the mentality. maybe just moving, maybe just because he's lonely in a foreign country and loneliness?
a bit ambiguous, owed much to his lonely on the outside, once home, you're behind the forgotten person. not even think about him, he is a regular student you are, otherwise, nothing. < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
13, Female, 39 years old, Kochi women, divorced a year ago, was sparked off by a dispute and her mother. eleven years of marriage, Quarrels continued, arguing mostly for him. He is a character is very introverted person self-esteem is too strong, heavy bookish, from small rural households in the patriarchal grew up spoiled, because the character is not good, though hard work in the unit, but not as good as he was promoted to Italy, read the in-service Ph.D., six did not graduate, Do not say that this diploma on. three years ago in a business trip in March, one case I was too busy to take care of the child, whom he is not enough, he had been left out, I felt boring marriage, determined to divorce, that I deceived him for ten years. trouble for six months, in my insistence, did not leave. After a year of quiet days, I am very depressed, not due respect, there is something wrong in the place where her mother was, he did not do justice, I said, thinking of his mother small farmers He said I including the mother. I work as much as possible, considering the poor children and their four-year-old age, to let let him. recently learned that he help the two women had bought a house, because a woman can only be a good friend, worry about how the money is also another woman. In fact he is now a good friend in high school students, working in Shenzhen, she also has a child, if the many problems their children to school in Beijing. He Zhigu romantic, that woman said would love my children, in the decoration.
I am in pain are: 1, I do not trust the child, he had no control over her childhood, and now can not manage, it is unrealistic to rely on other people, and I raise, first, not income, Second, I am now in poor health, really angry and half to death by his .2, I think he has depression and tendency to sleep when his high school, often poor sleep, work and study after the wind was the cause of so does not matter, in the unit reputation is poor, the family also frustrating mess, because a lot of money to buy a house due to pressure, said that it was I killed. In fact he was very motivated but also love kids, and now I always do not think he did not know this continues He will not go to extremes, will ultimately harm the child if this .3, I am very upset with him though heartbroken, I ran out of power did not save the family, but the total also want the family to recover the children, but also feel out looking too hard, pull it out thinking, very distressed. Please come to the crossroads to the directions!
Oh, shun this garbage goods really seen a one, two lovers to help him out, he thought he was in demand, the life and death, and his wife to divorce, the results of the 2 after the divorce had not told him a woman for too long, eventually he became a loner, like to see a daughter, his daughter, the urine is not the urine. You and the girls also, The key is to ask him for his support payments, not for his pique on the cheap. In addition, now you have sympathy for his depression? that is you stupid, no one really depressed people engage in two women. now you He is no longer married, if more to do for him and his mother a horse, too sad, you are on the knowledge of what it? women have to be comfortable before you make a man of slavery?
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14, I 34, married 10 years, one daughter. father died, her mother lived with us. As much difference in character, and her in-laws have always failed to know more of. My husband is gone through many hardships then catch me, marriage although large differences found in personality, more hard to communicate, but so far I still believe he truly loves me. hardest to bear is my mother, she is a right to want a strong man, the family's big and small have control, so I did not feel at this point sovereignty. I a little gift to her family and not a face. I live in the same area with our sister, my family had a good thing, mother is always the first to take his daughter home, and even usually eat vegetables, rice, a number of daily necessities to the sister family to be divided . It did not say I have endured what his heart has been very uneven, very depressed.
chat yesterday, my daughter, my daughter asked me why I suddenly Zhang do? old mother told her that I have a few father, grandmother married one after another, but also every day to eat nutritious food nourished. when I was gas faint, and my mom is how the hardy woman ah! car accident she was 32 years old my father died, one from her To pull our three young children at the age of the life force .38, she remarried, to a few years after Dad died sick. Now her people in our home, she is the mother of my great heart, can be I despised her mother, but also have time to let her disappointment, my mother now refuses to play on my home. with my husband talk about useless, he did not dare to how his mother was. I can not stand it, either daughter, I'd do not want to move along in the family. Shun Shun ah, you say how can I do ah?
your mother go too far, did not give her severe look, she thought she was the Queen Mother. You can not feel bad daughter, his unhappy, your mother who is distressed? daughter to him and his mother, live out your own time, let them try not hostess uncomfortable, so if they do not turn over This family is still back out for good.
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15, and her boyfriend of 2 years, and first love. I have graduated from work, he graduated from vocational high school is now 23 years old, and now there is no real job. I let him to continue learning, adult college entrance examination and the like do not want him. He loved bragging, self-righteous, can not find work also hosts a lot of excuses. Now not only do not find work, and play games all day. I quite appreciate the feelings of our , also like him through life, but he is not so aggressive, I want to leave him, but he particularly want to fight then, is not resolved.
men do not make progress, the right to marry another do not care particularly motivated Offer the woman a man there, you obviously inappropriate to him, so that the next unkind.
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16, My boyfriend and I are 25 years old, another is love, understanding almost two years, lived together for almost six months, he was very nice to me, but never said love me, so I've always been insecure. live together, he rarely kiss me, but it never made the request in that regard. I think it is because he not determine our future, so often very painful. Sometimes I think, since love him, do not think so much, cherish life together, good for him. can and can not help but be sad, how can I adjust the own mind, let each other be more happier then?
a cohabiting men do not want intimacy? impotence or sexual orientation unless he has problems. you still find out what he was in the end the man is right, not because you usually good to ignore his sexual orientation or sexuality, after all, after the wedding, which will destroy the marriage.
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17, my husband and I married fifteen years, the children more than a dozen years. husband and wife had a good feeling He is a soldier, had been living apart .2004 he was having an affair, a divorce, I did not agree, then by the family to do the work, and I forgive him .2006 October he met a girl, once again filed for divorce, I strongly agree with this, not long after, he regrets to return home. this thing until now I did not agree, but he calls every day, very seriously, he said he finally found, or love me. But I always He did not really think that more than a decade loved me, and the character is very self, does not scruple to others feelings, want to get certain things, and mood instability, the old toss, then his phone were scared.
me now met a foreign man, he paid me very seriously, I love my pet, marry me. but do not give back her husband has been the face of the child's future education and future life of a person, I did not grasp Shiquan If he comes back, it must break up and love my man, I do not want to; and her husband, life would not find the original feeling. so I want to ask Soon sister to the pointing, is to get him back, or insist on a divorce? how to do we go?
you men are soldiers, though he derailed 2 can now be with you people is firm and good, so the affair once you are a man you know, the consequences of not good ah. you gave a man a chance, maybe he really grew up, I really do not play? If life and death, and men and can not accept good from it as early as possible, and save your married lover into the military destruction of bad elements.
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